For The Heart Still Beating is a podcast for wedding photographers, artists, and creatives who want more than just pretty pictures and perfect timelines.

Hosted by Hamburg-based photographer Björn Lexius, this show dives deep into the emotional, often unspoken side of working in the wedding industry — the burnout, the identity crises, the beauty, the doubt, and the why-the-fuck-am-I-still-doing-this moments.

It’s not about algorithms or business hacks.
It’s about staying human in an industry that often forgets we are.

Real talk. Messy feelings. No filters.
For the ones still creating with a pulse.

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FTHSB ep.02 - This Industry Wasn’t Built for Us — So We’re Rebuilding It w/ Martina Lanotte

SummaryIn this conversation, Björn Lexius and Martina discuss the pressing need for representation and inclusivity in the wedding industry, particularly for queer couples. They explore Martina's journey as a queer photographer in Copenhagen, the importance of visibility, and the role of language in shaping perceptions. The discussion highlights the challenges of performative inclusivity and emphasizes the need for true representation that goes beyond aesthetics. They also address the responsibility of photographers to challenge traditional norms and the importance of education in fostering a more inclusive environment. In this engaging conversation, Björn Lexius and Martina discuss the complexities of navigating personal balance in a chaotic world, the challenges and stereotypes within the wedding industry, and the importance of representation for queer photographers. They explore how vulnerability can foster community support and the intersection of politics and photography. The dialogue emphasizes the need for authenticity in capturing memories and the significance of building a supportive network in the industry.TakeawaysThe wedding industry has a representation problem.Inclusivity in photography is about making everyone feel safe and respected.Copenhagen is a welcoming space for queer couples.Visibility matters for marginalized communities.Language shapes reality and can either include or exclude people.True representation goes beyond aesthetics and includes diverse voices.Performative inclusivity is not enough; real change requires action.Photographers have a responsibility to challenge traditional norms.Education is key to fostering inclusivity in the industry.The future of weddings should focus on authenticity and diversity. People often ignore troubling behaviors until it's too late.Limiting news consumption can help maintain mental health.Comment sections on social media can be toxic and misleading.The wedding industry often prioritizes the bride over the couple.Language in the wedding industry can alienate grooms and queer couples.Representation in photography is crucial for inclusivity.You don't have to conform to industry standards to succeed.Community support is vital for queer photographers.Vulnerability can foster deeper connections within the LGBTQIA+ community.Authenticity in photography should focus on real emotions, not just content.
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FTHSB ep.01 — Photography, Fear & Finding Your Voice | w/ Fer Juaristi

SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Björn Lexius and Fer Juaristi explore the intricacies of photography, particularly in the wedding industry. They discuss the importance of authenticity, the balance between creativity and structure, and the impact of social media on photographers. The conversation delves into personal insecurities, the evolving definition of success, and the significance of community and education in fostering growth. Through their candid exchange, they highlight the challenges and joys of being a photographer in a rapidly changing landscape, emphasizing the need for experimentation and self-discovery. In this engaging conversation, Björn Lexius and Fer Juaristi delve into the world of photography, exploring themes of cinematic styles, personal projects, and the emotional connections that photography can create. They discuss the importance of legacy, humility within the photography community, and the balance between craft and emotion. The conversation also touches on the significance of storytelling in photography and the need to embrace change and new inspirations as artists.TakeawaysYou don't have to have it all figured out; just give a damn.Every wedding feels like the first time, keeping creativity alive.Navigating the balance between structure and improvisation is key.Social media can create pressure but also opportunities for connection.Success is defined by personal fulfillment, not just fame.Insecurities are common; acknowledging them is the first step.Education in photography should inspire, not just inform.Finding your unique voice is essential in a saturated market.Community and connection are vital for growth and support.Experimentation is crucial for keeping your work fresh. Experimenting with cinematic styles can enhance photography.Personal projects help maintain passion and creativity.Finding meaning in work is essential for fulfillment.Legacy is about the emotional connections we create.Humility is crucial in the photography community.Storytelling adds depth to photography.Craft should evoke emotion, not just be technical.Embracing change keeps creativity alive.New inspirations can come from unexpected sources.It's important to connect with others and share experiences.